Its incredible how close the two words are... Half the people I know would say loners are losers... Why would ANYONE be content with being alone all the time? But if you think about it, they aren't content. I know I'm not.
-=-=-
If you meet a loner, no matter what they tell you, it's not because they enjoy the solitude. It's because they have tried to blend into the world before, and people continue to disappoint them.
- Jodi Picoult, "My Sister's Keeper"
-=-=-
I didn't ask to be a loner. I never pushed people away, saying "No, I want to be alone, and have no friends." No one asks for that.. it just happens. So what's the next step? You deal with it... I don't like being alone, I'm USED to being alone. I don't enjoy having no one to hang out with, I'm USED to being in my room and at home all the time. After a while, being a loner becomes who you are. You accept it as your life. Is that right? No, probably not.. It's probably wrong to accept not having friends, or accept not going out with people... But it's what I'll do to make myself happy. And as of now? That's all I really want.
May I offer you my friendship even if it is only an online one? Peersonally I feel one never has too many friends. Being alone sometimes is a good thing I do believe but I also think we all need others that we can share part fo ourselves with. If not then i really cant see much reason for living at all. Just my thoughts tho. I wish you well in all you do and hope you find the key to finding all your joy and peace fo mind."HUGS"
ReplyDeleteI feel social interaction is an important aspect of life. However, I don't rely on going places or seeing people at all. I find a purpose in living through personal happiness, even if that means being without people. And if that's just me talking from being alone, then I guess that's just my personal opinion. Isn't that what my blog is for? Other than my quite abnormal seventeen-year-old thoughts haha (:
ReplyDeletewhatever it takes for you to find happiness and inner peace is ok by me as long as it doesnt hurt anyone else.If youare happy with things the way they they are then I'd say you are a success.And I would surely never tell you to change anything . Hope you are having a great weekend!
ReplyDelete